Wednesday, June 9, 2010

When One Door Closes Another Door Opens

“When one door closes another door opens, but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.

- Alexander Graham Bell -

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one, which has been opened for us.”

- Helen Keller -

These two quotes are so true! Read them again, they both say:

When one door closes another door opens.

People are too often attached to the past, to what they are familiar with, and therefore miss opportunities that stand right in front of them. Doors may close, but there are always unlimited numbers of doors – new opportunities. The world is full of opportunities, if we could only see them. The Infinite Power is infinite, and so the possibilities are without number.


Not every plan works out, there are losses and failures, there are problems in relationships, loss of money or job, sometimes unpleasant things happen. We don’t always have control over these happenings, but we can exercise control over our attention and attitude. When one of these things happens and we focus our attention on the loss – the closed door, we see only a closed door with the resultant frustration and unhappiness, but if we could only move our sight and attention away from the closed door, we might be surprised to discover a row of open new doors.


It might not be so easy to move our eyes elsewhere due various reasons, such as attachment to the old and familiar, and fear of the new and the unknown.

Many find it difficult to stop their stream of controlled thoughts, and consequently their mind keep focusing on the loss, failure, and frustration – the door that has closed. Will these thoughts help in anything, except of creating suffering and preventing any change and improvement?


You might agree with what is being said here, but how can you free yourself past attachments and see new opportunities? How can you bring yourself to realize, see look and enter the new doors that open for you?


This might need some effort on your part:

  • You will need to be more aware of your thoughts.

  • Desire to free yourself from thoughts that keep you stuck in one place.

  • Develop some degree of self-discipline.

  • Develop some concentration ability and control over your mind.

  • Take advantage of the power of affirmations and visualization.

  • Some degree of inner peace is also required, since inner peace helps you reject unwanted, negative thoughts, and become more open-minded, positive and happy. When you experience inner peace, it would be easier for you to detach yourself from the past, keep an open mind, and therefore see more clearly the new doors that open for you.


Don’t forget, when one door closes another one opens.


4 comments:

Ramachandran said...

very true. But if we don't look at the closed door, it makes us inhuman. After all we should feel atleast a bit for what has happened.

Unknown said...

Thinking of past hmm... wait let me say like this Learning from past something is different from thinking and suffering from that. I hope no will like to suffer, its about keep our vision clear even after a storm so that you won't miss beauty. Hope you can help yourself to don't miss beauty of life.

Ramachandran said...

somethings are precious than life in life.

Unknown said...

Precious than life should make life more precious. Not always what we feel is right than the fact.